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January 18, 2010 09:16:14
Posted By streetsisters
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After 5 years of struggling with addiction in the downtown eastside, Darlene has stayed clean and
sober since December 17th, 2009 (the night of the Street Sister's fundraiser) and has moved home
to Burns Lake to be with her three young children. Darlene says she is "so overwhelmed at how I
feel each day from the moment i open my eyes to closing them at night... I still find myself
waking up in the middle of the night just to check on my babies and to make sure that this isn't a
dream …" She says she is doing extremely well, that her children are content and that she is
receiving lots of support from the community. She also expressed her gratitude to her sisters, the
Facilitators and the film crew who "believed in me enough to not give-up on me and stuck beside
me through thick and thin... no matter how dfficult i may have been. I feel sooooo lucky to have
friends like you... I couldnt ask for anymore – your positive feedback, quotes, outbursts & even
swearing at me did me wonders."
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January 4, 2010 08:10:57
Posted By streetsisters
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After not seeing or hearing from her 18 year old daughter since she she was 12 (6 years ago), Mealinda reconnected via email with her daughter Roberta who now lives in Whitehorse, Yukon. Over the past 5 months, they have corresponded a few times and Mealinda has asked for and received Roberta's forgiveness. And two days after Christmas, Mealinda received the best Christmas gift ever when Roberta came all the way from Whitehorse to visit! Over the past 9 days, Mealinda and Roberta have been inseparable - cooking, shopping, chatting, and even having sleepovers. Roberta even came to the group and shared her inspirational story with the sisters. Today, Mealinda has been clean and sober for 2 months and 4 days and she credits reconnecting with her daughter for the sobriety and stability she now has. Roberta is so happy to have her mother back in her life and doesn't want to leave and return to the Yukon. It has been the merriest of Christmases and happiest of New Year's for both.
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October 27, 2009 10:24:30
Posted By streetsisters
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Today was a remarkable session.
When we began filming 7 months ago, 6 of the 10 Street Sisters were homeless, living on the
streets or in shelters. Today, all of the sisters have a home!
Each of the sisters who attended today talked about how much their lives have changed in
the
past 7 months and how positive and hopeful they are about their futures.
Janet is excited to be moving out of an SRO (Single Room Occupancy) Hotel in the
downtown eastside (DTES) and into market housing outside the DTES with her boyfriend this
Thursday.
Meleanda talked about how badly she wants to reconnect with her 18 year old
daughter
like several of the other sisters have with their children. She has emailed her daughter who
lives
up north and is looking forward to being a mother again and having her daughter back in
her life.
Kim continues to heal in a residential treatment facility that she and her boyfriend
Doug
reside at in Surrey. With the exception of two minor slips, Kim has been clean and sober for
6
months. She also shared how much pain accompanies getting clean and sober.The sisters
helped
Kim celebrate her birthday today with a cake. She turns 35 tomorrow.
Gloria, Sam and newborn Richard are all doing remarkably well and are looking
forward
to going home in the middle of November.
Sophia, who is 5 months pregnant, is doing well on a methadone maintenance
program,
abstaining from all other drugs and looking forward to getting married to her boyfriend Ron
in
December.
Sonia (Sandra) will be missing 6 weeks to participate as a cast member in the
Headlines Theatre production of After Homelessness. Darlene was sick at
home with the H1N1 virus.
Rosa, Vanessa and Sarah did not attend.
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October 13, 2009 11:15:43
Posted By streetsisters
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Dr. Gabor Maté facilitated the group today and asked the sisters how important
spirituality was/is for them. He suggested that it might be an important dimension of their
healing journey.
Janet spoke about her lack of identity and trying to find herself as a child growing
up as an orphan in Vancouver. She spoke of the joy she experienced dancing with her
daughter at the Pow-Wow this summer.
Mealinda spoke of being raised a Catholic, the daughter of a preacher and how
painful it still is to talk about.
Sonia was raised white and went to Catholic school. She hates Christianity but
believes in a higher power and wants to find her spiritual side. As a child she was taught to
be ashamed of being native.
After residential school, Rosa’s mom didn’t want her children going to church or learning
the native ways. Rosa ended up hating churches after hearing about all the abuse
and missing children in the residential schools. On the walk4justice, Rosa met her parents
for the first time in 38 years and they told her that her Indian name means strong spiritual
woman.
Vanessa was born and raised in Vancouver and has never really connected with
her native spirituality. She has some CD’s of native music which, out of respect, she only
listens to when she’s sober.
Darlene grew up Catholic and was both an altar and choir girl but her grandmother
also taught her their native language and traditions.
When Sylvia first got clean and sober she hated God but realized she had to
change her attitude towards spirituality. Her spirituality is now a blend of many different
teachings.
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October 12, 2009 07:18:14
Posted By streetsisters
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After being homeless for more than a year, Mealinda and Dave celebrated their new home at the
newly renovated Savoy Hotel by cooking turkey dinner for the sisters. To see the difference in
Mealinda and Dave in such a short time, simply as the result of having a home, is remarkable.
Mealinda put so much effort into the dinner. She and Dave walked all the way from downtown to the
Superstore at 12th & Renfrew to purchase the food! And Mealinda even woke up in the middle of the
night because she had a nightmare that someone had stole the turkey ... Fortunately no one had and
the dinner was amazing - roast turkey, mashed potatoes, stuffing, carrots, gravy, pasta salad and
pumpkin pie. It was a wonderful evening …
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